{"id":12718,"date":"2010-08-12T08:13:51","date_gmt":"2010-08-12T07:13:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?p=12718"},"modified":"2010-08-12T08:13:51","modified_gmt":"2010-08-12T07:13:51","slug":"vanner-nar-och-fjarran","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?p=12718","title":{"rendered":"V\u00e4nner &#8211; n\u00e4r och fj\u00e4rran"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Varje \u00e5r under <strong>Medeltidsveckan<\/strong> h\u00e4r i <strong>Arboga<\/strong> g\u00e5r jag och <strong>Kerstin <\/strong>ut. Av en h\u00e4ndelse kom vi, f\u00f6r n\u00e5gra \u00e5r sedan, att sitta bredvid ett g\u00e4ng trevliga grabbar. Vi hade s\u00e5 kul tillsammans att vi kom att\u00a0 &#8221;st\u00e4mma tr\u00e4ff&#8221; med dom \u00e5r efter \u00e5r. Vi gick ju \u00e4nd\u00e5 ut samma dag och samma tid, satt p\u00e5 samma st\u00e4lle &#8211; s\u00e5 varf\u00f6r inte!?<\/p>\n<p>Ig\u00e5r var det dags igen! <a rel=\"attachment wp-att-12719\" href=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?attachment_id=12719\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-12719\" title=\"IMG_5754\" src=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/IMG_5754-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"135\" height=\"180\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/IMG_5754-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/IMG_5754-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 135px) 100vw, 135px\" \/><\/a> If\u00f6rd traditionell medeltida kl\u00e4dsel tr\u00e4ffade vi killarna p\u00e5<strong> &#8221;Munken och H\u00f6nan&#8221;<\/strong>. Lika kul som alltid trots att v\u00e4dergudarna inte stod oss bi detta \u00e5r.<\/p>\n<p>Visst kan man ha m\u00e5nga &#8211; just v\u00e4nner! V\u00e4nner \u00e4ven bland det motsatta k\u00f6net som f\u00f6rblir just bara &#8211; v\u00e4nner. Och v\u00e4nner b\u00e5de n\u00e4r och fj\u00e4rran! <strong>Facebook <\/strong>\u00e4r en mekanism f\u00f6r just mer l\u00e5ngv\u00e4ga kontakt. Kontakter som bara uppst\u00e5r p\u00e5 just Facebook kanske &#8211; genom gemensamma intressen. Och d\u00e5 spelar inte avst\u00e5ndet n\u00e5gon roll. Dottern har t ex en hel del v\u00e4nner i <strong>USA och Japan<\/strong> &#8211; just genom Internet.<\/p>\n<p>Att tr\u00e4ffa likasinnade fr\u00e5n samma trakt via Facebook, var en id\u00e9 som fr\u00e4mst <strong>Roger<\/strong> i g\u00e4nget ig\u00e5r, och jag, diskuterade. Allts\u00e5 tr\u00e4ffas in real life s.a.s. Vi kommer att sp\u00e5na vidare p\u00e5 den id\u00e9n s\u00e5 h\u00e5ll utkik p\u00e5 Facebook ni som \u00e4r intresserade.<\/p>\n<p>Sen \u00e4r ju denna kontaktsida av s\u00e5dan art att man kan ha ett annat liv d\u00e4r \u00e4n i verkligheten. En mer fejkad bild av sig sj\u00e4lv. Detta g\u00f6r kanske att man inte alls vill tr\u00e4ffas och d\u00e4rmed bli &#8221;avsl\u00f6jad&#8221;. Men det \u00e4r ju helt upp till var och en.<a rel=\"attachment wp-att-12720\" href=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?attachment_id=12720\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12720\" title=\"Facebook\" src=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/Facebook.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"132\" height=\"93\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ja, Guds v\u00e4gar \u00e4ro outgrundliga &#8211; eller som man s\u00e4ger p\u00e5 engelska: god works in mysterious ways! Olika \u00e4r de v\u00e4gar vi hittar till varandra.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-12721\" href=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?attachment_id=12721\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-12721\" title=\"G\u00e5 i m\u00f6rket med en v\u00e4n\" src=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/G\u00e5-i-m\u00f6rket-med-en-v\u00e4n-209x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"209\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/G\u00e5-i-m\u00f6rket-med-en-v\u00e4n-209x300.jpg 209w, http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/G\u00e5-i-m\u00f6rket-med-en-v\u00e4n.jpg 349w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 209px) 100vw, 209px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Men ett \u00e4r s\u00e4kert: Vi beh\u00f6ver v\u00e4nner! N\u00e4ra v\u00e4nner och v\u00e4nner lite s\u00e5 d\u00e4r i allm\u00e4nhet. V\u00e4nner b\u00e5de n\u00e4r och fj\u00e4rran.<\/p>\n<p><a rel=\"attachment wp-att-12722\" href=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/?attachment_id=12722\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-12722\" title=\"V\u00e4nner i computern\" src=\"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/08\/V\u00e4nner-i-computern.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"144\" height=\"144\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Varje \u00e5r under Medeltidsveckan h\u00e4r i Arboga g\u00e5r jag och Kerstin ut. Av en h\u00e4ndelse kom vi, f\u00f6r n\u00e5gra \u00e5r sedan, att sitta bredvid ett g\u00e4ng trevliga grabbar. Vi hade s\u00e5 kul tillsammans att vi kom att\u00a0 &#8221;st\u00e4mma tr\u00e4ff&#8221; med dom \u00e5r efter \u00e5r. Vi gick ju \u00e4nd\u00e5 ut samma dag och samma tid, satt [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[100,101],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12718"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=12718"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12718\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12730,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12718\/revisions\/12730"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=12718"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=12718"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.filindeblogg.nu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=12718"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}